Monday, December 6, 2010

Two Words...Suck It!

Here’s the deal with my blogging…I don’t have a schedule, I don’t cave to pressure, I don’t beg for subscribers, I pretty much just write a blog post when I have something longer than 140 characters to say. Technically, I would say I am more of a “microblogger”, hence WHY I spend so much time blowing off steam on Twitter. Which ironically has given me the inspiration for my most recent blog post which I’ve decided to plainly title,

“Suck It!, Yep That’s The Blog Title”

Look, I love playing on Twitter as much as the next geek with no life, but seriously there are several behaviors on Twitter that annoy me so much that I just want to scream when I see them pop up! Maybe I am just totally neurotic and these behaviors don’t  bother the rest of you, but I have a feeling I’m not alone.
Ok…


http://www.nosexandthesuburbs.com/2010/12/suck-it-yep-thats-the-blog-title/

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Thursday, October 21, 2010

Halloween in Orange County

Halloween is just around the corner, can you believe it? We know you’ll be busy finding costumes, gathering goul-ish decor, putting out the candy… making this the “best” Halloween ever. Because we know you wouldn’t want to miss any of our local events, we’ve put together a comprehensive list of “things to do & places to go” this Halloween season. Happy Haunting!

Halloween in Orange County

Monday, September 13, 2010

Fur + Cocktails + Twigs = FurryCockTwigs?

Ask ANY woman that watches Sex And The City about Fashion Week and you’re sure to hear about Samantha’s white fur coat splattered with the red paint incident. Ask anyone that reads my blog, No Sex And The Suburbs about Fashion Week, and you’re more likely to hear groaning husbands that feel their wallet instantly lightening, and several rich & feisty cougars letting out a mighty roar…RAWWWR!
But whatever your reaction may or may not be towards Fashion Week, let me just tell you...(To read the post in it's entirety & to view the video montage from Fashion's Night Out, please go to
http://www.nosexandthesuburbs.com/2010/09/girls-in-tech-gone-wild-fno/)

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Thursday, September 2, 2010

Talking 'Housing First' with Linda Kaufman from Pathways to Housing

Mark, you continue to inspire me with your outreach and heartfelt connection to an under served community. I personally disagree with the commenter down below, but that is the beauty of this country, the freedom of opinion and speech. Thank you for these meaningful posts, I will continue to look forward to your blogs about your missions.
Read the Article at HuffingtonPost

Wednesday, August 18, 2010

GLEEfully Athletic?

Macy’s Beverly Center will be at the heart of the GLEE phenomenon as
stars from FOX’s smash hit television series make a special appearance
to launch the exclusive GLEE apparel line. Join the cast members and
hundreds of lucky fans in a one-day-only poster signing that will surely
get ‘Gleeks’ in a frenzy.
To find out the details check out http://www.nosexandthesuburbs.com/2010/08/calling-all-fashionable-gleeks/

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Thursday, August 5, 2010

Dear Me...Listen To You!

I’ve recently come to the conclusion that sadness, disappointment, loss and heartache ALL stem from the same place…(read on here)
http://www.nosexandthesuburbs.com/2010/08/do-you-listen-to-mc-jackhammer/

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Friday, June 11, 2010

Katy Perry SLAMS Lady Gaga's 'Blasphemous' New Video


IMHO the choreography and costuming are quite exquisite, as are the color contrasts. How is this video any different than Madonna's "Like A Prayer" from the 80's? What, because the imagery toys with homosexuality & religion it makes it morally reprehensible? If anything the timing is succinct with the times. Relax Katy. Funny how you have no problems cutting a record with a former gang member. Does that not affect your morals and principles? People, if you find this kind of music and expression offensive, you DON'T have to watch it...no one is forcing you.
Read the Article at HuffingtonPost

Tuesday, June 1, 2010

99 Ways To Smile

I jotted down 99 things that ALWAYS make me smile, to remind myself (and hopefully a few of you who read this) that the big victories really ARE in the little things.
After you read this post, I challenge YOU to ask yourself, “What makes ME smile?” I would absolutely LOVE to hear your answers, so please share your lists however big or small, in the comment section here http://bit.ly/aaLtzv
Consider it an experiment. What if we all shared a few things that bring us happiness and we manifested more happiness amongst one another in the process? Wouldn’t that be nice? I think so, we can all use a little warmth, right?
To read the 99 ways to smile simply click this link http://bit.ly/aaLtzv

Thanks and enjoy!

Stacey Soleil

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Twitters Most Likely 2010

80 of Social Media's finest are highlighted...Did you make the cut? Click here to find out bit.ly/czhlB0

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Thursday, May 20, 2010

Is It A Twitter No-No To Create A Title Including The Word SEX?

Well if it is, I am in trouble, because I just did! <GASP>
Hiya all you wonderful Posterous & Twitter pals of mine, I am actually just sending a quick note to let you know that I launched my own blogsite.
http://www.nosexandthesuburbs.com
(I love the url, hahaha)

What's it about you ask?
Well...what ISN'T it about, really! lol. I have male and female subscribers, so I guess it appeals to both, which is pretty exciting actually.
Here's the tagline to give you an idea:

Where Xanax & Yoga Are Like Milk & Cookies…

Hope you'll stop by & check it out!
Please leave me a comment on one of the blogs you enjoyed and if you share your blog url with me, I will reciprocate.

-xo

Stacey Soleil
Connector | Blogger | Tastemaker | Social Media Events Coordinator
staceysoleil@gmail.com
http://www.nosexandthesuburbs.com
Twitter - @StaceySoleil
(323) 393-0081

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No Sex And The Suburbs

Just a quick note to let you all know that I launched my own blogsite.
http://www.nosexandthesuburbs.com

What's it about you ask?
Well...what ISN'T it about, lol.
Here's the tagline to give you an idea:

Friday, May 7, 2010

#JustTheRightAgedWomen FTW!

Ok, ok, here's the scoop -
One of the clients (Momlife http://www.jenandbarbmomlife.com/) of a company I contract with (GMS http://gurumediasolutions.com) was nominated for the Best Reality/Variety Host category in the 14th Annual Webby Awards http://www.webbyawards.com/.
I found out this week that they WON the WEBBY and while this announcement in and of itself, is great and newsworthy, what I am personally THRILLED about is the fact that this is the FIRST time in WEBBY history that either a MOM or a WOMAN OVER 40 has been nominated, no less WON this award.
As a "mompreneur" myself that *ahem* fits into this age demographic, I am giddy as can be! I LOVE that the voices of Moms, and "Middle Aged Women" (aka #JustTheRightAgedWomen) are finally being heard and recognized.

Below is the link to the official press release:
http://www.prweb.com/releases/2010/05/prweb3964684.htm

If any of you reading my post are compelled to share this story, I would be greatly honored. If you a mommy, a blogger, an mompreneur or a social media enthusiast, your reposts and tweets will really help to make this victory resonate loudly enough so that the doors of opportunity will remain open for women like "us", for years to come.

Thanks for letting me get all "cheerleady" & #RahRahSisBoomBah ;)


Stacey Soleil
Branding & Content Specialist
staceysoleil@gmail.com
(323) 393-0081

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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

The Twitter Top 10 "Tool" List

1.) The Stalker - This is the guy/gal that obsessively reads their "friends" Twitter/Facebook feeds to find out what they've been doing/eating/drinking/talking about, to see if they are missing anything that COULD possibly be about them, and/or to find out if there is some event that they weren't invited to or @reply included in. On average it takes them an average of 100 clicks of the MORE button to compile all of the stalker facts that they need. (Reeee-Reeee-Reeee) How do you identify the stalker? If you notice that they make mention of a conversation you had EONS ago on Twitter or Facebook before you had even added them, or that they weren't even a part of...ummm yeah, they just might be a stalker (RUN!)

2.) The All Talker -
This person goes on and on and on and on and on about "Best Practices in _________Business", and is always telling you WHO you should be following (because their authority is all-knowing). They generally have a ton of "Titles" or company links as to impress you with their entrepreneurial "biz-naz sense", and they have an unusual obsession with cheap hair products. These peeps are often mistaken as car sales people IRL.

3.) The Aggro Tweeter -
Also known as the "Bully". This person often speaks in ALL CAPS and uses foul language unapologetically. They are always ranting or overreacting over something (usually of little importance), and they have no problems calling out users they think are beneath them. Their followers are utterly afraid of them and are commonly referred to as their minions. You may need a 12 Step Program to successfully unfollow this aggro tool.

4.) The Wannabe - This person uses Facebook and Twitter to pretend like they are friends with celebrities and/or popular online personalities. You will often find them leaving an @Reply for famous athletes, models, musicians, porn stars, and actors just so it LOOKS like they are friends. These are the same people that tell all of their friends "Yeah, @APlusK and I are homies, just check out my tweet stream from yesterday when I gave him a shout out!" -OR- "It was so good to see @JennaJameson last night, she was turning around giving me the eye all night" (Yeah from the TV SCREEN!) These fools live by the notion, if you Tweet it, they will come.

5.) The Insomniac -
This is the crack addict that you can count on to entertain you at 3am when you can't get back to sleep after having a middle of the night pee session. These peeps are all revved up and full of conversation about life, love & music...thankfully you cannot see their powdery noses and non-stop jittery legs underneath the desk because it's the Internet. A sure fire way to identify these cats: Try to reach them at 2pm in the afternoon, you won't be able to...they are almost GUARANTEED to be asleep (finally).

6.) The God Complexer - This noble creature spends their entire day lecturing the rest of the Twitterverse about the principles of love, humanity and good deeds. They have a zillion followers (also known as disciples) that obediently RT all of their quotes from Ghandi, Mother Teresa, Dalai Lama, Nelson Mandela, Chinese Proverbs, Dr. Wayne Dyer, Rumi, Deepak Chopra, Oprah Winfrey, Lao Tzu, and Martin Luther King Jr. (They rarely have anything to say on their own, other than THANK YOU, I LOVE YOU ALL SO MUCH...) Their secret dream is to buy real estate in the middle of the sticks so they can build a compound for all of  their loyal Twitter followers to come and worship them. (Twemple of Doom anyone?)

7.) The Puppet - This spineless Twitterer NEVER has anything original to say and if you look at their profile it is pretty much a million RT's all in a row, followed by a gazillion #FF suggestions of all the people they already RT'd. They usually have an altered sense of smell due to the fact that their nose has spent WAY too much time up the booty of their favorite Twitter idols. ;)

8.) The Fake ID'er - This is the underage kid that constantly engages in conversations with "Party People" trying to pretend like he/she can hang. You'll often see them saying things like "Yeah, let's party this weekend...I'll be there with some booze homey", or "Damn baby, you're so sexxxy...you should be MY woman, the things "I" would do to you..uhhhh!" and then the next morning you notice that they've checked into their high school on @FourSquare.

9.) The Bwaaaaaker - This is the person that smiles to every one's face and then locks themselves in their room for hours on end, to passive aggressively tweet bash all of the people they just pretended to be friends with. They love to rally the support of their online community to gather a sense of support over their twisted notions (because they are too chicken to face their problems head on), and when the people they are referring to ask if everything is OK, they always smile and say "Yes, everything is great...why do you ask?" These people usually carry kitchen knives in their purses or up their jacket sleeves and they have an unusual amount of @FourSquare check-ins at coffee shops.

10.) The Constipator - This is the person whose tweet stream is so boring and conservative that their page is often used in sleep studies to get patients to enter into REM cycle. All their tweets ever consist of are business quotes, stock option advice, links to business quotes about stock option advice and normally their profile pic looks like the poster child for an Ex-Lax commercial . They are incredibly appalled by "kids these days" and always have protected tweets to ensure their privacy. (Yeah, because sooooo many people want to get all up in THAT...ha, I think NOT!)


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Saturday, January 30, 2010

#SMMOC

Every Saturday morning at 9am, Social Media Masterminds OC meets to discuss, share and learn the latest and greatest trends in social media.
Reach out to me on Twitter @StaceySoleil, to learn more.

Ps. Happy Saturday Everyone!!! :)
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Wednesday, January 27, 2010

Are you TOO Square for Foursquare?

So the big controversy right now is SHOULD you use Foursquare or not? Is it stalker friendly? Will it cause drama in your love life? Is it just another way to bore people with senseless tweets about where you have been?

Well honestly, yes...lol

But then again, not really. Anyone can use Foursquare, and if  used properly, it's a hoot! Just like any other social network, it needs to be implemented with discretion. As for the stalkers and personal life drama potential, AGAIN, you will want to be wise about WHO you add to your following and be smart about WHAT you decide to tweet publicly about. My personal rule of thumb is that if I am WITH a big group of people, I could really care less WHO sees it, but if I am on my own, I usually check-in as I am leaving anyways.
As for the concern of boring followers with your location tweets...SURE, you may run the risk that some people will unfollow you, or roll their eyes at your tweets, or talk smack behind your back, but you know what? They already do anyways, so who REALLY cares? It's a social network...have FUN and be savvy.
We are ALL involved in social media in one way or another, we NEED to stay up to date on what is "in" and where people are spending their time. It's time to break the mold and say NO, I am NOT too square to be on Foursquare! ;)

So, what IS foursquare?
A church? A whimsical elementary recess game that leaves you feeling rejected and lame?

LOL, actually, foursquare is a cross between a friend-finder, a geo-tagging social city-guide, and a game that rewards you for doing interesting things. The site aims to not only help you keep up with the places your friends go, but to also encourage you to discover new places and challenge you to explore your neighborhood in new ways.

*Rumor has it that businesses will be partnering up with the site soon to offer savings and incentives to "Star" users and location evangelists. #JuicyGossip ;)

   
How do I get it on my phone?   

There are apps available for the iPhone, Blackberry, Android and Palm Pre.  If you don't have one of these phones, you can always use the mobile website or if you prefer to checkin via SMS you can send a text to 50500 (like this:  @ Ace Bar ! Playing skeeball).  For now SMS checkins are only available in the US.

   
Where is foursquare available?

You can use foursquare anywhere in the world!  Check-in at the Statue of Liberty in NYC, the Golden Gate bridge in SF, the Petronas Towers in Kuala Lumpu, or the Arch de Triumph in Paris!  Back in the day, you were limited to select cities, but now you can check-in anywhere you please!
(Heck, I recently checked in and became the mayor of @MayhemStudios LAP! LOL)

   
What is a check-in?   

When you tell foursquare where you are, that's called "checking-in". You can check-in from parks, bars, museums, restaurants...really anywhere.  When you check-in foursquare lets your friends know where they can find you and award you points and badges based on your adventurousness.
Check-in *TIP* - If you decide to check into your home, make up a fictitious name for your destination, and either leave the streets out of the venue or make up make believe streets. You'll want to keep SOME locations private! You can also check in "Off The Grid" and still get points, but I personally recommend keeping some level of privacy when it comes to your home.
(I made the mistake of NOT realizing my home was marked on a tweet before...YIKES - Delete, Delete, Delete)

   
How does foursquare know where I am?

The foursquare apps for iPhone, Blackberry, Android and Palm use GPS to show a list of nearby places. To check-in, just choose the name of the place you're at from this list of nearby places. If they don't have the place you're looking for you can always add it to your listings yourself. Don't worry, foursquare doesn't know where you are unless you check-in to tell them your location. (Meaning it's not BIG BROTHER or anything like that)


What is "The Mayor" all about?

If you've been to a place more than anyone else we'll crown you the "The Mayor" of that place. I've actually seen lots of bars and cafes starting to offer "Mayor Specials" -a free coffee or appetizer or maybe a special discount to the mayors of their venues.  Watch out though - once someone else comes along who has checked-in more times that you, they can steal the "Mayor" title back from you.
*NOTE* Sometimes promotions are not valid and you may be refused. This actually happened to a group of us that chose a location based on a foursquare coupon that was advertised, and we were totally shut down, lol.   

(PS - if you want to become mayor, you actually NEED to have uploaded a profile photo)

   
So what are badges?   

Badges are little rewards you earn for doing checking-into interesting places.  For example, staying out late on a school night or frequenting too many karaoke bars.  They are constantly adding new badges and are open to hearing your suggestions. (I had suggested a #Douchebag badge and shortly thereafter one magically appeared...hmmmm, qwinky dink?)

 
A lot of the badges are tied to venue "tags".  People use tags to describe the places on foursquare (e.g. jukebox, pool table, fireplace, pizza, etc)  Without giving away too much, here's a few suggested tags you can add to your favorite places to help unlock badges :  airport, college, douchebag, food truck, frat, gallery, gym, karaoke, movie theater, photobooth, pizza, playground, socialite, sorority, tourist, CES, overshare, crunk, etc.)

   
How do I earn points?   

Most foursquare check-ins will earn you points.  You can earn points for your first check-in at a certain place or by adding a new place to our listings.   We display a list of the users who have racked up the most points on the "leaderboard".  The idea is that the more you experience, the more places you visit, etc. the higher your score for that week.  The leaderboard resets every Sunday at midnight.
(*TIP* If you want to kick your friends booties in points, wait to check-in your end of day Sunday trips until after the board resets on Sunday evening at midnight, hahaha *Thx @Hoda007 for that tip* :P)

Here's how points are currently awarded:  (and yes, they've been know to tweak this from time to time)   


    *         +5 points for your first time checking-in at a venue

    *         +5 points for adding a new venue

    *         +1 point for per check-in, increasing by +1 with each check-in
               (e.g. your 1st check-in of the day is +1, 2nd check-in of the day +2 points, etc)

           
 
What can I do with these points? (Nothing really...just bragging rites, lol!) :P

Foursquare is still experimenting with what points could translate into. In December 2009, they did a charity drive where each point earned was donated to charity.  If you're interested in working with them on experimenting how points can turn into real-world rewards, contact foursquare directly at http://getsatisfaction.com/foursquare/  !

   
What are "Tips" and "To-Dos"? (Ways to unlock badges FASTER...w00t!)

Foursquare is just as much about sharing experience as it as about connecting with friends and discovering new places.  Every foursquare user has the ability to create both "Tips" and "To-Dos" for places.  Tips are generally things you'd recommend to other ("Go to PDT and try the bacon-infused Old Fashioned") while To-Dos are more "notes to self" ("Remember to come back and try the pesto noodles").  Whenever you check-in to a location, foursquare tries to offer a pop-up a tip that one of your friends has left nearby (you'll be surprised how often these tips help you choose what to order at a bar or restaurant!).  And, of course, you can take these Tips and To-Do's with you on your phone so wherever you happen to be, you'll always have a recommendation of something interesting to do nearby.
   
   
What does "off the grid" mean?

(It means check-in on the low down so your nosy boyfriend/girlfriend doesn't know WHERE you are and you can still get POINTS!!! Hahaha)

An "off the grid" check-in, is a check-in where you hide your location.  Sometimes you'll want to check-in without letting your friends know where they can find you.  Why?  You could be on a date, out to dinner with friends, or someplace you don't want people to know about... all while still wanting to check-in to collect points and earn badges.  "Off the grid" check-ins allow you to still use foursquare without broadcasting your location to everyone.


Information Sources:

Foursquare Facts: http://foursquare.com
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Stacey Soleil
Social Media & Branding Specialist
Educator / Speaker / Podcast Host
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Friday, January 22, 2010

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Here at the Pacific West Association of Realtors with Ricardo Bueno, educating realtors about the best practices on Facebook and various social media sites. To learn more about our workshops, check out www.ribeeziemedia.com

Find us on Twitter:
Ricardo Bueno @Ribeezie
Stacey Soleil @StaceySoleil
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Tuesday, January 19, 2010

How Do YOU Wear Your “BRANDana”?

How Do YOU Wear Your “BRANDana”?

Brands, just like bandanas, come in many different colors and sizes. I find it interesting that a basic piece of fabric can be used in a plethora of different ways; ranging from simple practicality to outright, over the top tackiness. Inspired by this analogy, I compiled a variety of “BRANDana” styles I have recently encountered across the social media.world. Clearly some of these styles are more desirable than others, but just like fashion, there always seems to be someone out there wearing it loud and proud. That being said, where does your brand fit? How does your service or product wear its "BRANDana"?
 
Cowboy -
Mainly used to wipe sweat from the face of the product and keeps the dust off of the collars; basically the type of branding that focuses on blue collar appeal, manual labor and rugged good looks.

Neckerchief – Commonly associated with Scouts and sailors; this is branding that focuses on conservative and traditional viewpoints.

Blind Chicken – Used to cover the eyes during a game of piƱata; a type of branding that intentionally blind sights the consumer in the hopes that they will just focus on the “prize”.

Wristband - Worn to demonstrate the wearer's support of a cause or charitable organization, similar to awareness ribbons; the kind of branding that places strong focus on philanthropy.

Mask - Worn on the face, typically for protection, concealment, performance, or amusement; otherwise known as spammy branding that hides behind the guise of a lame promotion or gimmick.

Scarf - Worn for warmth, cleanliness, or fashion; the type of branding that offers consumers a sense of security while maintaining a sense of style.

Scrunchie -(or scrunchy) commonly used to fasten or hold back long strands; the kind of branding that pulls together the large pieces of information and binds them together into one cohesive bundle

Gangsta – Usually tied around the neck, head or mouth. Used to look tough, add drama; a youthful branding approach that is focused on an edgy or hip factor appeal.

Headband - Usually worn to hold strands away from the face or eyes: the kind of branding that pulls back the clutter and reveals the face of the product.

So many brands, so many styles...stop and ask yourself what style is your company or product wearing?
What’s your “BRANDana”


Written By: Stacey Soleil

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